Chapter 12.3: Five Sagely Practices to Restore Balance to Life, Part III: Gratitude

Hard to come by objects make people do obstructive things – This is why the sage acts from the core and not the eyes. As such he discards all of that and lays hold of this. As with the experience of thrill seeking, the same principle also applies to rampant consumerism – particularly when it is coupled with the belief that the things we own somehow make us more valuable or worthwhile. There is nothing inherently wrong with purchasing or accumulating nice things. The problem is when we place our identity or affix our worth to those external commodities or when we feel like we have to show off or showcase ourselves or what we own to enhance our worth . When we do so, we can become so desperate to seek validation through those things that we can do regrettable, unethical, and even harmful things – things that obstruct our true selves and that get in the way of others. As entrepreneur and lifestyle guru Tim Ferris has aptly taught, “Money doe...