Chapter 1.3: Managing Expectations While Pursuing What You Want
Therefore, being constantly free of expectations enables us to observe the wonders along the Way. Whereas, constantly having something we want, enables us to see the farthest frontier of the Way. Believing in the core tenant that there is always a Way and liberating ourselves from limiting labels and negative names so that we can believe that anything is actually possible for us, where we are right now, leads us now to two wayfinding skills: Openness and Intentionality. First, openness refers to being receptive to marvelous and wonderful possibilities for the course of our lives that are unimagined, unanticipated, and unforeseen at present. Being open means letting go of what we think we want and our own expectations of how to achieve it. It means allowing for some spontaneity, some flexibility, some change in plans. Get off the beaten path, shake up your routine, get out of your rut, stop and smell the roses, do something you’d never have...