Chapter 16.4: Understanding Constancy and the Way
Understanding constancy
leads to becoming all-encompassing.
Becoming
all-encompassing leads to impartiality.
Becoming impartial leads to nobility, nobility leads to becoming heavenly.
Becoming heavenly is the Way, and the Way is long-enduring,
and until the body is buried there will be no self-imposed misfortune.
Understanding, or possessing
knowledge of the constants in our own lives increases awareness of the constants of those around us – the deep seated motivations and aspirations of soul that
stay with them throughout their lives. The
greater our understanding of constancy the more encompassing, accepting, and
embracing we become. Like an
all-encompassing valley with an equal place and opportunity for all,
understanding constancy expands our vision of ourselves and others, opens our
minds and hearts to new thoughts and perspectives, and empowers us to embrace
differences and diversity. We become
great-hearted and high-minded. This, in
turn, leads to greater equity and equality, increased inclusion and
impartiality.
When we embrace our place in the universe, we won’t feel the need to try to compete with, outsmart, or outmaneuver others. We won’t feel the
need to show off, put ourselves on display, try and enhance our worth with external things. Knowing that everyone we encounter is a unique and rare treasure in
this world with gifts to give and a personal purpose to pursue, we will
naturally liberate ourselves and others from all limiting labels. We will stop objectifying and (mis)judging
ourselves and others based on subjective social stereotypes and cultural
constructs and we will get off the rollercoaster of relative worth with its
corkscrews of constant comparisons and instead look inward, return home to ourselves, drinking deeply from the wellspring of our souls, and reconnect with
the deep taproot of our souls – with the constants of our core being. Greater inclusion and impartiality in our
lives is regal and ennobles us to become better versions of ourselves – even more
spiritual or heavenly versions of ourselves.
Becoming the best version of ourselves is the Way – it is the result of
making choices at each juncture of our lives to lead and influence ourselves
and others along our personal path of purpose.
Greater equity and inclusion. As we walk the Way, we have a greater and
more enduring impact in the world and in the lives of others. Such a life does not bring about its own
demise, doesn’t self-sabotage, and doesn’t injure oneself. It encourages us to pursue our passions,
chase our dreams, and reach for the stars without settling for less than,
giving up on ourselves, or falling victim to the pitfalls of this world. ~ DCB
Translation Note: The Chinese term 殆 (dai4),
which means misfortune, calamity, or danger is comprised of 歹, a simplified form of 歺, referring to an ox scapula 夕ritually cracked in divination 卜. The earliest extant writings
from ancient China are the Oracle Bones of the Shang Dynasty (ca. 1600-1046 BCE). These are collections of divination records
or “oracles” engraved on turtle plastrons and ox scapulae that, among other
things, often attempt to divine the future results of, spiritual support and
retribution for a proposed course of action.
Conversely, the Oracle Bones also sought to determine the reason for
natural disasters and social calamity in human behavior – or the ways people
had already brought disaster upon themselves.
This is akin to karmic retribution, the law of attraction, and the law of the harvest. In similar ways, our
limiting beliefs, fixed mindsets, and in-the-box collusions with others (as the
Arbinger Institute has coined it) often create the very calamities that we seek
to avoid. We create our belief systems
and then we experience them – our focus determines our reality. Understanding the constants of our core being
allows us to decipher the often perplexing reasons why we do the things we do
and empowers us to live authentic lives where we don’t bring about our own
downfalls.
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